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What's Your "Why"?
If someone were to ask you why you are doing the job you do, what would your answer be? Is it because you love your work? Or because you feel called to do it? Or is it just because you need to pay the bills, and you just fell into this job? Â Motivation is a powerful thing. When we have already established our "why" in the good moments, we are prepared to refer back to it in the bad moments. When the job is aggravating, or it seems like we aren't making progress, or we just f
Brian Reaves
Oct 282 min read
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10 Life Skills to Master
Life becomes lighter when you learn how to carry yourself with strength and calm. These 10 skills can help you remain steady, regardless of what happens around you. Look people in the eyes. Confidence shows in your eyes. Meet people’s gaze with calmness, no matter who they are. Pause before you reply A short pause before speaking helps you stay in control and avoid saying things you regret. Plus, it gives them time to continue talking to fill the silence, so you can learn mor
Brian Reaves
Oct 211 min read
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Know Your Worth
In October 2018, a new luxury shoe store opened in a posh mall in Santa Monica. The shoes were displayed on glass shelves and runways....
Brian Reaves
Oct 123 min read
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Are You Better Today?
Sarah was nine years old when she decided to try running a real race at school. She consulted with her coach, who helped her practice and...
Brian Reaves
Oct 72 min read
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Are You Ready To Help When Needed?
On July 26, 1992, Derek Redmond started running in the 400m semi-final race in the Barcelona Olympics. He was in the best shape of his...
Brian Reaves
Aug 162 min read
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Five Quick Points to Remember
This post will be short and sweet as I'm trying to prepare for a conference coming up this week. My friend and fellow magician, Paul...
Brian Reaves
Mar 192 min read
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Consistency Over Complacency
Do you have any idea how many steps you take in a day? I recently got a smartwatch that tracks my steps in addition to showing the time....
Brian Reaves
Feb 62 min read
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Freedom Through Forgiving
When you forgive and forget them, they lose any hold on your life
Brian Reaves
Jan 282 min read
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Persistence Pays Off!
Have you ever quit too soon? Let me tell you about someone who fixed that in their life. At the 1912 Olympics in Stockholm, Shirzo...
Brian Reaves
Jul 30, 20243 min read
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Time To Take Action!
What are you doing to move ahead in life? For years, I had a desire to play the guitar. I had watched so many amazing guitarists make...
Brian Reaves
May 7, 20242 min read
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Falling...with style!
Have you ever failed at something? I think it's safe to say we all have at one time or another...but it's when we can fail without...
Brian Reaves
Mar 18, 20243 min read
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My New Book, "Possibilities", is Out!
How do you feel about tomorrow? Are you excited? Or are you just expecting more of the same from yesterday and today? It's time to get...
Brian Reaves
Nov 9, 20231 min read
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Can You Stand the Pressure?
Several years ago, a hidden camera TV show decided to try a little prank/experiment. The object was to see how people would conform to...
Brian Reaves
Oct 2, 20234 min read
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Recognize the Value of a Moment
On Friday, January 12, 2007, violin virtuoso Joshua Bell conducted a little experiment inside L’Enfant Plaza Metro entrance in the busy...
Brian Reaves
Sep 4, 20232 min read
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Don't Be Afraid to Grow!
A few years ago, I bought a small willow tree from a local store. It was about three feet tall with just a hint of green on a couple of...
Brian Reaves
Aug 17, 20233 min read
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Be Real
I recently performed at a show where I really wanted to get flashy with the finale. I had a good trick to close out the show, but I...
Brian Reaves
Jul 24, 20233 min read
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Celebrate Even Your Little Victories!
This week, I wanted to talk about winning. Everyone likes to win big--and it's an awesome feeling--but have you ever considered the value...
Brian Reaves
Jul 10, 20233 min read
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When No One Else Will, Just Believe In Yourself
Tom worked in his company for 20 years. He was a faithful worker, a smart worker, and perhaps most importantly, an observant worker. He...
Brian Reaves
Jun 26, 20232 min read
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The Discipline of Time
I am an "early" kind of guy. If I'm supposed to be somewhere, I would rather arrive an hour early and sit there rather than to arrive...
Brian Reaves
May 22, 20232 min read
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Take That First Step Toward Your Goals
Earlier this year, I talked about goals. If you haven't already read that post, I encourage you to do so as you can call this "the...
Brian Reaves
Apr 17, 20233 min read
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